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WHICH ONE...
Constantly pushes the other person's buttons? ⟡ Says “I love you” first? And who ends their arguments in a fight with “Because I love you”? ⟡ Slides their arm around the other person's waist? ⟡ Falls asleep in a chair and who has to carry that person to bed? ⟡ Kisses whom first? ⟡ Spends all their money on the other person? ⟡ Offers their jacket when the other one is cold? ⟡ Keeps getting threatened by the other’s overprotective older sibling? ⟡ Compliments the other in front of everyone? ⟡ Introduces their partner to their family first? ⟡ |
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⎨FIRST MEETING⎬
X. ⎨FIRST KISS⎬ X. ⎨FAVOURITE PARTNER TRAIT(S)⎬ X. ⎨ENDEARMENTS⎬ X. ⎨FAVOURITE MEMORY⎬ X. |
⎨PREVIOUS LOVERS⎬
X. ⎨FIGHTS⎬ X. ⎨JEALOUSY⎬ X. ⎨WEDDING⎬ X. ⎨THE FUTURE⎬ X. |
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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
SUB HEADLINE To a person whose love language is Words of Affirmation, their partner’s appreciation and love are best affirmed to them through words. This someone who is uniquely aware of how powerful and beautiful words can really be. On the flip-side, for people with this as their primary language, insults or negative comments may cut a little deeper. Words can be used as a way to tear someone down or build someone up. Since written and spoken language speaks directly to their heart, people with this love language will show their loved ones affection through effusive words, terms of endearment, and sweet little nothings, which are really sweet little everythings. For people who gravitate toward words of affirmation, they find fulfillment through positive reinforcement via compliments or praise that shines light on something they did or who they are as a person. To some, words may not seem that meaningful, but to people whose love language is words of affirmation, underneath each word is an ocean of meaning and significance that is working to either strengthen or weaken the relationship's bonds.
“His gaze, though almost improper, was the most sensual thing he could have done at the moment, and it jolted her heart into a strange rhythm, leaving her unable to speak.”
— Anna Durbin
KISS ME
SUB HEADLINE How to Communicate ⪧ Encourage genuinely and often, affirm, appreciate, empathize, and listen actively. Actions to take ⪧ Be encouraging and empathetic, express your admiration, leave love notes, compliments, and be yourself. Things to avoid ⪧ Non-constructive criticism, not recognizing or appreciating effort, and receiving affection coldly. |
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WHICH ONE..
Is the first one to admit they have feelings for the other? ⟣ Is more protective of the other person? ⟣ Whispers inappropriate things in the other's ear during inappropriate times? ⟡ Makes fun of the other person for having a crush on them? ⟡ Is the most affectionate? ⟣ Wears the other’s clothes? ⟣ Gives the other a piggyback ride when they’re tired? ⟣ Initiates the touching when the other person is near? ⟡ Thinks they don't deserve the other person's love and affection? ⟡ Giggles uncontrollably when the other playfully picks them up? ⟣ Is the big spoon/little spoon? ⟣ |
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T H Ex S A G I T T A R I U S
&x T H Ex C A P R I C O R N When a Sagittarius and a Capricorn join together in a love match, things may start slow and they may feel that they do not have much to gain from the other. In some ways, the Sagittarius and the Capricorn are opposites: the Sagittarius is easy going, adventurous, seeks knowledge for its own sake, always jumps headfirst into new things, and is typically impatient to a fault. The Capricorn is detail-oriented and passive, even shy, and is always looking toward the next project. Their differences can actually forge a stronger relationship in the long run, there being vast amounts each partner can learn from the other.
“Very rarely is anything I do innocent, Princess.”
― Jennifer L. Armentrout Early in the relationship, the Sagittarius and the Capricorn may not be able to see past one another's flaws. The Sagittarius can at times seem unruly, and the Capricorn may come across pompous and elitist. But once they stop focusing on one another's faults and look to their respective strengths, they will see a vast pool of attractive qualities. The Sagittarius can show the Capricorn adventure and excitement, and can offer a glimpse of the freedom so often missing from the Capricorn's life. The Capricorn, on the other hand, teaches the Sagittarius to pay attention to detail, uncovers the knowledge that the little things are important, and helps them to harness their random energy. The Sagittarius may view the Capricorn as too responsible, and will teach their partner to lighten up. The Capricorn may accuse Sagittarius of being reckless and impulsive, and can help them to become well mannered. |
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"She longed for him. He knew it, much as it astounded him. Not that he was unused to being sought after by women. He'd been blessed with a certain combination of form and face which seemed to draw both women and men to him, even as they fought against the pull. But [Adelia] wasn't like other women. She was too determined, too sensible to fall for his clever ploys. But she looked at him with her heart in her eyes, and he knew that he'd found the one thing he couldn't resist. A taste of innocence, after a lifetime of jaded pleasures." — Anne Stuart |
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