Yelian
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Y E L E N Ax &x E L I A N
"He looked down at her as he eased from the bed. Why such a creature of light and love and life should have come to him,
he could not fathom. But he was grateful. Very grateful."
– Elizabeth Hoyt
L O V I N Gx A N
E X E C U T I V E
Executives are fairly unique in that their relationships do not really change as they progress from the dating phase into more steady, long-term relationships and further into marriage. Because they value honesty and straightforwardness so highly, people with the Executive personality type are likely to be clear about who they are, what they are like and what their goals are from the start, and to stick to those statements long-term. So long as their partner is able to take them at their word and follow suit, they are bound to be extremely stable relationships.
This is not to say that there isn't any growth of course – character development is always a high priority for Executives, and each life goal is important. Rather, it is that shifting moods, goals and desires are unlikely to fundamentally alter the basis of Executives' relationships.
Executives approach intimacy with similarly physical, active intentions, and from fairly traditional ones as well. Wild ideas and poetry are for less mature personalities, or so Executives might say, though they do appreciate recognition and well-placed compliments to maintain high self-esteem. They may look for more stability in their sex lives than most, but Executives never fail to bring their characteristic vigor.
This hints at a challenge in Executives' relationships though, and that is emotional intimacy. Touchy-feely moments are few, as are verbal statements of love; this is usually fine, as Executive personalities find other, more tangible ways to express their affection. The problem is in recognising the validity of those qualities in others, rather than simply dismissing them as pointless or irrational, something that can be extremely hurtful if Executives' partners are more sensitive.
Executives address conflict head-on with simple statements of fact – a very rational approach – but subtlety and emotional tact are sacrificed in the process. While Executives' level-headed, calm approach is appreciated by many, for others it is an uncomfortably direct approach. For all their social skills, Executives are especially bad at reading the emotional side of other people, and when it comes to their partners, it is more important than ever to try to improve.
Executives are people of strong principles and strong self-confidence. They use these qualities to protect their partners with admirable consistency. But people with the Executive personality type are also stubborn, with a firm belief in their rightness, and they can quickly damage more sensitive partners' fragile feelings. With this in mind, it is often best for Executives to find fellow observant partners in order to minimize communication barriers, with one or two opposing traits to balance their forceful character and provide opportunities for growth.
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OTP PROMPTS
"'I don't deserve her,' he mumbled, without intending to. 'Of course you don't. Neither do I deserve my wife.
It's an unfair fact of life that the worst men end up with the best women."
– Lisa Kleypas
W H I C Hx O N E . . .
Rocks the ferris wheel seat? ⟡ Elian certainly considers it, but eventually thinks better of it as he watches Ellena marvel over the view instead.
Sleeps in the adjacent room after they get into a fight? ⟡ Elian knows when to stand his ground and when to retract to the guest room. Oftentimes he returns to bed in the middle of the night and begs forgiveness with a mumbled apology and a soft kiss.
Says "I love you" first? And who ends their arguments in a fight with "Because I love you"? ⟡ Although Elian was the first to realize his romantic feelings towards Ellena, she is the first to put it into words. Elian is not good at putting his feelings into words, and he is much more likely to use his 'I love you' as an argument in a fight.
Slides their arm around the other person's waist? ⟡ Elian, albeit he usually keeps his hands to himself unless they are alone... Or he wishes for them to be alone.
Falls asleep on the couch and who has to carry that person to bed? ⟡ Ellena falls asleep after a long day of healing duties, and Elian gently carries her to bed and tugs her in, wishing her the sweetest of dreams with a kiss on the forehead.
Kisses whom first? ⟡ X.
Spends all their money on the other person? ⟡ They are both born into aristocratic families with quite substantial holdings, so the urge to spoil their partner lies deep within them both – and is acted upon frequently.
Is embarrassed when they have a bedhead, and who thinks they look super cute? ⟡ Ellena is more likely to be flustered about her appearance, whereas Elian is more carefree about that sort of thing. Truth be told, they both adore their partner's bedhead in the morning.
Offers their cloak when the other one is cold? ⟡ Elian was raised to be a gentleman, and has no issue parting with his cloak if than means keeping Ellena warm instead.
Keeps getting threatened by the other’s overprotective older sibling? ⟡ Ellena's older brother, Gavriil, was sceptical at first, but he was won over after seeing his sister happy for the first time in years.
Compliments the other in front of everyone? ⟡ Elian would try it out every now and again, if only to see Ellena get flustered. However, neither of them are ones to flaunt their love around, and saves the compliments for intimate moments shared only by the two of them.
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QUESTIONNAIRE
"Quote."
– X
⎨FIRST MEETING⎬
Elian and his crew saved Ellena from drowning off the coast of Ravka and offered hersafepassage back home.
⎨FIRST KISS⎬
Their first kiss has yet to happen.
⎨FAVOURITE PARTNER TRAIT(S)⎬
Elian will forever be captivated by Ellenas kind heart and gentle spirit, those deep brown eyes always managing to see the best in people. Even, and perhaps in particular, when they cannot see it in themselves.
⎨ENDEARMENTS⎬
X.
⎨FAVOURITE MEMORY⎬
X.⎨PREVIOUS LOVERS⎬
Elian was betrothed to Lady Maryse Isabelle de Vries, a Kerch noblewoman, who turned the back on him the moment she learnt about his unfortunate Grisha inheritance. What they shared can hardly pass for love.
⎨FIGHTS⎬
They disagree on occasion, usually because Elian tends to let his fierce temper get the better of him, with Ellena being the only person able to pull him back. They are not prone to fighting, however, and Elian couldn't dream of raising his voice against his beloved.
⎨JEALOUSY⎬
Elian watches people fawn over Ellena every day, and for the most part he is unbothered by it. If an unfortunate soul looks at her the wrong way, however, he is rather quick to anger.
⎨WEDDING⎬
X.
⎨THE FUTURE⎬
X.
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LOVE LANGUAGE
"This is who I am, [Ellena]. Naked, with blade and blood. I am vengeance. I am hate. I am sin personified.
Never mistake me for the hero of this tale, for I am not and shall never be. I am the villain."
― Elizabeth Hoyt
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
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To a person whose love language is Words of Affirmation, their partner’s appreciation and love are best affirmed to them through words. This someone who is uniquely aware of how powerful and beautiful words can really be. On the flip-side, for people with this as their primary language, insults or negative comments may cut a little deeper. Words can be used as a way to tear someone down or build someone up.
Since written and spoken language speaks directly to their heart, people with this love language will show their loved ones affection through effusive words, terms of endearment, and sweet little nothings, which are really sweet little everythings.
For people who gravitate toward words of affirmation, they find fulfillment through positive reinforcement via compliments or praise that shines light on something they did or who they are as a person. To some, words may not seem that meaningful, but to people whose love language is words of affirmation, underneath each word is an ocean of meaning and significance that is working to either strengthen or weaken the relationship's bonds.
"She consumed me in a heroic madness.
I wanted to save her from everything, but in the end, she saved me."
– Atticus
H E A D L I N E
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How to Communicate ⪧ Encourage genuinely and often, affirm, appreciate, empathize, and listen actively.
Actions to take ⪧ Be encouraging and empathetic, express your admiration, leave love notes, compliments, and be yourself.
Things to avoid ⪧ Non-constructive criticism, not recognizing or appreciating effort, and receiving affection coldly.
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OTP PROMPTS
"You know as well as I do, damn you. Like it or not I seem to have grown a heart.
I have absolutely no use for the damned thing, but there it sits, demanding [Ellena]. I can't live without her."
– Anne Stuart
W H I C Hx O N E . . .
Is more afraid of loosing the other? ⟡ Ellena is more fussy, yet Elian is the one being genuinely afraid of losing her. He lost one love, and it nearly destroyed him, but the thought of facing a life without Ellena is unbearable to him.
Makes fun of the other person for having a crush on them? ⟡ Elian would tease Ellena mercilessly, if only to avoid admitting that he was most definitely crushing on her first.
Initiates the hand holding? ⟡ Both. Words of affirmation might be their love language, but they each feel much more at ease when knowing, and feeling, that the other person is near.
Is more protective of the other person? ⟡ They each are in their own way. Ellena would fiercely defend Elian against those criticising his demeanour or speaking ill of his powers, whereas Elian would be a bit more violent about the whole ordeal if anyone or anything were to pose a threat to Ellena.
Wakes up from nightmares, and who sings them back to sleep after? ⟡ They each take turns having the occasional nightmare, which is why they both prefer sleeping as closely together as physics will allow.
Thinks they don't deserve the other person's love and affection? ⟡ Elian struggles with his self-worth every now and again, but Ellenas love and empathy always manages to convince him that he is exactly where he is supposed to be: With her.
Thinks they keep messing up, only for the other to tell them they don't need to worry? ⟡ X.
Constantly wears the other's clothes? ⟡ X.
Competes in some sort of activity, and which one does the overzealous cheering? ⟡ X.
Is more likely to start dancing with the other? ⟡ X.
Whispers inappropriate things in the other's ear during inappropriate times? ⟡ X.
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COMPATABILITY
"He kissed the salty tears from her cheeks, her jaw, her neck. And then he kissed her mouth, slowly at first, tasting her pain and despair. Tasting her desire. He didn't know whether he turned her in his arms, or whether she shifted herself. He only knew she was astride him, facing him, her long legs wrapped around his hips, and the kissing had gone long past comfort."
– Anne Stuart
T H Ex A Q U A R I U S
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When Cancer and Aquarius make a love match, it can be a case of opposites attracting.
The Cancer takes an emotional approach to life, whereas the Aquarius has a more offbeat, unconventional approach. While the Cancer often retreats into its shell, the Aquarius takes every opportunity to be the visible, often taking on the role of leadership or front figure. They love to find themselves amongst friends and trusted ones, although their confidence is not easily earned. If a Cancer and an Aquarius can find a way to combine these qualities in a positive way, they can go anywhere together.
"He could have broken the man's neck with little difficulty, and it had taken a portion of his legendary self-control to keep from giving in to the impulse. Particularly when the cold, killing rage that had sustained him for ten long years had suddenly burned white-hot at the sight of his enemy mauling [Ellena]."
– Anne Stuart
Both the Cancer and the Aquarius can be ambitious and determined. They want to get their way, but whilst one tends to steer clear from conflict, the other confronts it head first. The Cancer can be old-fashioned, attached to tradition and routine, their morals more conservative than progressive. The Aquarius, on the other hand, is very modern and likely numbed by routine, yawning at the dull and the boring in which the Cancer sometimes finds comfort. The Cancer may be intrigued by their Aquarius lover's sense of excitement, but this traditional crustacean could get frustrated trying to keep up with this revolutionary's mind. Though the Aquarius will not appreciate the possessiveness of a pinching Cancer, they could find great comfort in the solid base Cancer provides. Just try to get them to admit it!
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"Then a strange thing happened. She turned to him and smiled, and as he saw her smile every rag of anger and hurt vanity dropped form him - as though his very moods were but the outer ripples of her own, as though emotion rose no longer in his breast unless she saw fit to pull an omnipotent controlling thread."
– F. Scott Fitzgerald
"You are the kindest thing that ever happened to me, even if that is not how our tale is told.
When everyone else told me I was destined to be a forgotten nymph that nurtured flowers and turned meadows gold, you saw that the ichor that resides in me demanded its own throne.
You showed me how a love like ours can turn even the darkest, coldest realm into the happiest of homes."
– Nikita Gill
