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F E Y R Ex &x M A L A C H I
"You two are bound to one another. You always have been… And you can't run away from what you are.
No matter where you go, your feelings for her are going to follow you."
– Mirella Muffarotto
L O V I N Gx AN
A D V O C A T E
Advocates look for depth and meaning in their relationships – and their romantic relationships are no different. This is a personality type known for having a vibrant, vivid imagination, but few Advocates can imagine themselves settling for a match founded on anything less than true love.
It can take time for Advocates to find a compatible partner. Some people might think that Advocates are too choosy, and it is true that these personalities can be prone to unrealistic expectations. With their perfectionistic, idealistic nature, Advocates might be tempted to hold out for a 'perfect' partner or relationship that ultimately does not exist. The good news? Advocates' idealism – if balanced with just enough realism – can actually enhance their love life.
Advocates tend to be attuned to their core values, keenly aware of what matters to them on a soul level. This helps them look beyond surface-level attraction and understand whether they are compatible with someone on a deeper, more meaningful level. These insights are essential for helping Advocates avoid matches that are not founded on authenticity or shared principles. Advocates care about integrity, and they tend to bristle when people try to change them or talk them into something that they do not believe. As a result, Advocate personalities gravitate toward partners who appreciate them as they are.
Once Advocates do find a suitable relationship, they rarely take it for granted. Instead, they tend to look for ways to grow as individuals and strengthen their connection with their partner. This can help Advocates' relationships reach a level of depth and sincerity of which many people can only dream.
People with this personality type create a depth to their relationships that can hardly be described in conventional terms. Because of their sensitivity and insight, Advocates can make their partners feel heard and understood in beautiful ways. Advocates are n't afraid to express their love, and they feel it with all their hearts. Advocates tend to recognise that love is not a passive emotion but rather an opportunity to grow and learn, and they expect their partners to share this mindset. As a result, relationships with these personalities are not for the uncommitted or the shallow. Advocates are intensely passionate in ways that transcend the present moment, and what truly fulfils them is the way that a loving, meaningful relationship evolves and deepens over time.
In their heart of hearts, people with the Advocate personality type crave an emotional and even spiritual connection with their partner. They cherish not just the act of being in a relationship but also what it means to become one with another person in mind, body, and soul.
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OTP PROMPTS
"I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you."
– Cassandra Clare
W H I C Hx O N E . . .
Constantly pushes the other person's buttons? ⟡ X.
Sleeps in the adjacent room when they get into a fight? ⟡ X.
Says "I love you" first? And who ends their arguments in a fight with "Because I love you"? ⟡ X.
Slides their arm around the other person's waist? ⟡ X.
Falls asleep in a chair and who has to carry that person to bed? ⟡ X.
Kisses whom first? ⟡ X.
Spends all their money on the other person? ⟡ X.
Is embarrassed of their bedhead, and who thinks they look super cute? ⟡ X.
Offers their jacket when the other one is cold? ⟡ X.
Keeps getting threatened by the other's overprotective older sibling? ⟡ X.
Compliments the other in front of everyone? ⟡ X.
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QUESTIONNAIRE
"I swore to fight by your side, to defend you to my dying breath, to cherish your body and none other,
and to be loyal to you as long as I live."
– Danielle L. Jensen
⎨FIRST MEETING⎬
X.
⎨FIRST KISS⎬
X.
⎨FAVOURITE PARTNER TRAIT(S)⎬
X.
⎨ENDEARMENTS⎬
X.
⎨FAVOURITE MEMORY⎬
X.⎨PREVIOUS LOVERS⎬
X.
⎨FIGHTS⎬
X.
⎨JEALOUSY⎬
X.
⎨WEDDING⎬
X.
⎨THE FUTURE⎬
X.
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LOVE LANGUAGE
"'Always,' he whispered in the breath we shared. 'Your heart was always safe with me. It always will be. There is nothing I will protect more fiercely or with more devotion, [Feyre]. Trust in that – in what you feel from me.'"
– Jennifer L. Armentrout
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A F F I R M A T I O N
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To a person whose love language is Words of Affirmation, their partner’s appreciation and love are best affirmed to them through words. This someone who is uniquely aware of how powerful and beautiful words can really be. On the flip-side, for people with this as their primary language, insults or negative comments may cut a little deeper. Words can be used as a way to tear someone down or build someone up.
Since written and spoken language speaks directly to their heart, people with this love language will show their loved ones affection through effusive words, terms of endearment, and sweet little nothings, which are really sweet little everythings.
For people who gravitate toward words of affirmation, they find fulfillment through positive reinforcement via compliments or praise that shines light on something they did or who they are as a person. To some, words may not seem that meaningful, but to people whose love language is words of affirmation, underneath each word is an ocean of meaning and significance that is working to either strengthen or weaken the relationship's bonds.
"'Promise me,' he said, seeming to not hear me as he lifted his head. His gaze snagged with mine. 'Promise me you won't forget this, [Feyre]. That no matter what happens tomorrow, the next day, next week, you won't forget this – forget that this was real.'"
– Jennifer L. Armentrout
K I S Sx M E
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How to communicate ➵ Encourage genuinely and often, affirm, appreciate, empathize, and listen actively.
Actions to take ➵ Be encouraging and empathetic, express your admiration, leave love notes, compliments, and be yourself.
Things to avoid ➵ Non-constructive criticism, not recognizing or appreciating effort, and receiving affection coldly.
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OTP PROMPTS
"With each day he felt the barriers melting. He let them melt. Because of her genuine laugh, because he caught her one afternoon sleeping with her face in the middle of a book, because he knew that she would win."
– Sarah J. Maas
W H I C Hx O N E . . .
Is more afraid of loosing the other? ⟡ X.
Makes fun of the other person for having a crush on them? ⟡ X.
Initiates the hand holding? ⟡ X.
Is more protective of the other person? ⟡ X.
Wakes up from nightmares, and who sings them back to sleep after? ⟡ X.
Thinks they don't deserve the other person's love and affection? ⟡ X.
Constantly wears the other's clothes? ⟡ X.
Initiates the touching when the other person is near? ⟡ X.
Is more likely to start dancing with the other? ⟡ X.
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COMPATABILITY
"'You want me.' 'Want does not begin to describe the way I feel about you,' his low voice promised.
'Want is nothing compared with the level of desire I have. With the desperation I feel. With the way I long for you.'"
– Sarah MacLean
T H Ex L I B R A
&x T H Ex A Q U A R I U S
When Libra and Aquarius join in a love match, their relationship can serve to heighten and strengthen both Signs’ consciousness.
These two connect on a high mental level; they share a love of art, people and culture; they both abhor restrictive influences in their lives. They are likely to get along well because they have such similar needs and will not require more of one another than they’re both willing to give. Both Signs are also very energetic, enthusiastic types; this relationship is not likely to become stagnant.
"He would carry her through more than just freezing waters. He would pull her through fire if he had to, haul her from the clutches of war, from falling cities and breaking worlds"
– Stephanie Garber
Both Aquarius and Libra are concerned with the betterment of the world and their fellow people. Aquarius is the most progressive thinker of the Zodiac, and they always have a new idea in the works. Libra is the diplomat of the Zodiac; abhorring conflict of any sort, they are born balancers (hence their Symbol, the Scales). Libra’s urge to avoid conflict put together with a love of intellectual freedom can lead them to be somewhat indecisive at times; when this happens, more decisive Aquarius can step in and help Libra figure out which direction to turn. Libra can return the favor by smoothing Aquarius’s occasionally ruffled feathers that result from the Water Bearer’s idealistic thinking sometimes crashing down in the face of reality.
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"'I knew right then you were the only one for me.' He pulled her hand from his face, kissed her palm, then pressed it flat against his chest. 'Beatings, battles, fights. No matter how bleak the circumstance, no matter how my soul despaired... this heart never once gave up.' His voice deepened, went thick with emotion. 'I've a theory as to why. Do you want to hear it?' She nodded. 'This heart is yours. It's yours,' he said. 'It always will be.'"
– Tessa Dare
"Holding her gaze, he sheathed his short sword and pulled the gauntlet off his left hand with his teeth. He held out his bare hand to her.
She glanced at the proffered hand before laying her palm in his. Hot strength gripped her tightly as he pulled her upright before him, so close she would’ve had to move only inches to brush her lips across his throat. She watched the pulse of his blood beat there, strong and sure, before she lifted her gaze. His head was cocked almost as if he were examining her – searching for something in her face.
She drew in a breath, parting her lips to ask a question."
– Elizabeth Hoyt
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