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“A cage stokes our emotions and imaginations, regardless of whether
you are inside looking out, or outside looking in.” – Michael Makai.
Where I create - there I am true.
Abandon everything: all pretense, all control, all dignity - and break; come to my arms.
Let me hold you while you shudder, let me feel the depths of you well up and pass. Let me hold all sorrow in my arms, and feel fear fall away. There is nothing my arms cannot encompass, nothing that I will not sit through with patience and acceptance. The demons may roar but they will grow weak against my certainty. Your ghosts may visit but my presence will dispel their power. Your prison walls may seem high but we will watch them fall together. In my arms, you shall be safe. I bring you to deep dark places. Places you long to go but are petrified of when you arrive. I know your internal struggle. The raw emotions that pour out of you are simply beautiful. The real unfiltered you, in all your wonderfulness, it's who you are on the inside. I love that you share the dark part of your soul with me. I love all of you, even the dark and disturbing part. I will give you what you need and crave, and then I bring you back safely. I'm your saviour.
Skillfully cultivated domination.
My experience has been a process that has built upon itself as my journey of self awakening unfolds. I am very interested in protocols, but my style is more fluid, assertive and subtle. I like the fact that as an empath, I am a more responsible and cognitive creature who will bring out the best of your submissive side and desires without causing you any permanent harm. I have an intuitive sense of control with a distinct erotic edge; and it has served me beyond well. Breathtakingly beautiful, highly intoxicating, incredibly intuitive, and impeccably skilled. I am proud to train with a style and in a fashion that is uniquely my own. Brace yourself.
Submit, and I'll show you Eden.
I like the idea of a classic dominant figure, whose identity draws from many different points in her life, blending into an aura that emanates a passionate desire to communicate with wisdom, beauty and truth. I experience great pride and joy in creating a safe space for slaves to authentically express core elements of their true selves that they may not be able to share elsewhere. I accept them unconditionally and free of judgment, providing a sanctuary where ego, worry and mundane issues of the outside world melt into nothingness.
Indeed, in a beauty way I walk.
shil hózhó - with me there is beauty;
shii’ hózhó - in me there is beauty;
shaa hózhó - from me beauty radiates.
Remolding of your ideas, expectations and habits will occur! The opportunity to demonstrate your prowess will exist, but ultimately your sweet gift of a submissive and willfully pliant behavior will make for the best results. For me, domination is not about inflicting pain but about taking over a slave’s mind, their whole being. It is about using them, pushing them, slowly shaping and training them to accept my will, to understand and meet my needs and find out about their repressed ones.
A slave should not be terrified.
Owning a slave is a serious responsibility. D/s can be dangerous, because it explores the most primitive sides of ourselves. Those involved must have a high degree of trust and a healthy devotion to one another. I am fair and strict, but not abusive. If I would become displeased or bored with a particular slave I would not hesitate to revoke the contract.
Living with a woman that feels powerful, creative, sensual, and comfortable
in her sexuality is an absolutely fabulous experience for her devoted lover.
I consider myself an erotic artist. As such, I'll find elation in our time together as it fulfills an aesthetic need for my senses. I'm the designer and creator of your reality, while you are with me and sometimes this lingers even longer. I will make the strings of your libido scream, enamoured of me and supplicant. Nothing thrills me more. Our time together will entail the delicate weaving of your fantasies mixed with my desires. There dwells within my senses a strict longing for perfection yet a benevolent kindness that generously offers flexibility and good humor. Do not mistake my kindness for weakness, because my temper, though in check, does know quite powerful outlets. I enjoy the sincere individual, who can approach me with the same equanimity I afford them in their journeys. Questions are welcome when posed thoughtfully, without offense or manipulation. I do not seek to prove anything to you other than that which you desire to manifest. Submit, and you'll see your true-self awakening. Under my guidance you'll start to experience yourself in a new light.
“Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is ajar.” – Jim Butcher.
How does a mistress center a slave? Being centered is a Zen term that means a person is balanced, calm, healthy, peaceful, grounded, nourished. Some might see it as a relaxed state, one of calm, creative, full of the realization of being well-off, in communion with one's self and one's environmen. How does a mistress center a slave? She does it by creating, with her slave, a right relationship, that is, one in which each is free to be her or himself; one with openness, honesty, and clarity of purpose. Centering comes from having a clear focus, mutual support, encouragement, and purpose. The master can become another set of eyes and ears for the slave, giving guidance, protection, even direction. We create by how we feel and what we believe. Being in a right relationship helps to clear our feelings, shows them for what they really are, releases negative emotions and dispels crippling fears. That is how a mistress centers her slave. Practically it may be through a good whipping, or a gentle hug, a stern lecture or loving advice. It may, of course, be more intimate, more private than outsiders can observe. (Text has been slightly reworded to fit my characters site, but was originally written by Jack Rinella.)
The ritual of ownership once you are accepted in my service.
When a slave is brought into my care, whether their previous status was that of a free person or not, they'll take an oath along with me.
Slave's Oath.
As a slave I lay at the feet of my Mistress all my fears, my hopes, my dreams, and my aspirations. I give to her my complete trust and faith that she will preserve my life and my body and protect it for her use as best she sees fit. Before I surrender all to her, I will discuss with her those things that frighten me and from which I wish my body be spared. I will leave it in her hands to decide whether to spare me these things or not, and trust in her that if she wishes to not spare me these things that she will take her time and patience to ease me into them so that I am not torn in my spirit and faith in her. I surrender all that I am; my heart, body, spirit, mind and soul to her to nurture and nourish, and trust that she will protect and guide me to be the best I can be. I know that she will be swift and strict yet fair in her discipline of me. My life is now completely in her hands.Dagger's Oath.
As a Mistress I shall listen to my slaves and their needs. I shall hear their cries and words, and heed when those tears tell me that I need to slow down or ease my ways with them. I shall be their friend, mentor, guide and lover. I shall protect them in all things that I do so that their body shall be preserved for my use. I will mould and shape them into perfection for me in my eyes to make them that gem that sparkles before any man/woman. Those things that I have sworn to them I will abide by for they are my oath and my word, and I shall not break their trust. If I swear to give them limits they shall remain. If I say their limits are for now then those that I decide to exercise I shall do with patience, and shall slowly ease the slaves into as to not frighten them. I shall make certain they enjoy, appreciate, or at least understand the experience to its fullest. They are not to be my experiment. If I do not know how to do something that intrigues them then I shall research it out to the fullest of my ability, attending demonstrations when possible, and when possible inflicting it upon myself before inflicting it upon my own slaves, for they are to be the ones unharmed. I shall never punish them when I am not myself, either through actions of my own, by fate, or by the will of others. If I cease to be the Mistress that they swore their oath to, if I should become deficient in heart, body, spirit, mind or soul, then I will release them from their oath to me, though they may stay of their own will if they choose. In all ways I shall do all to maintain their trust in me, and my word shall be law. I will always remember that their absolute surrender to me is the greatest honor that anyone ever can bestow upon another. -
Rules are necessary to know the safety of ones own boundaries.
- Be authentic. You are who you are, and thats all you should ever want to be. An original is always worth more than a copy. Be yourself, everyone else is taken.
- You are not permitted to touch money. If you have to transport coins, put them in your mouth or tie them in a scarf about your wrist/ankle until you can deliver it.
- If you need to relieve yourself, you have to ask for permission. You will use a chamber pot, and if I am in the room, you will have to maintain direct eye-contact.
- You may not sit or lie on any furniture, lean against walls, objects or furniture, except for the performance of duties or if you have my expressed permission to do.
- I do not respond kind when being lied to. Do it and you will have to face harsh punishment, or even worse as in being expelled/released from my/our household.
- You are not allowed to please or touch yourself in any sexual way, without direct order or explicit permission. A chastity-belt/cock-cage is the solution.
- I want you to wear the title of being my slave with honor and pride. Never make others think that being a submissive/slave means to be weak will or character.
- Respect feeds respect. If you want to earn mine, you have to show me respect in return. This is basically very easy. Keep this in mind, and we will get along fine.
- Please use some common-sense. A basic ability to perceive, understand, and judge things, which is shared by nearly all people, and can be reasonably expected of nearly all people without any need for debate. (summary)
- Be open honest with me about your feelings or fears. Voice them in a timely fashion and reasonable manner.
There are a few guidelines I want you to keep in mind, and follow.
Eye-Contact (owned/rented slaves)
A slave should always express submission through body and posture. Some Mistresses never allow their slaves to have their heads higher than theirs or to look at them directly. Although, this can sometimes be appropriate, my slaves are permitted to look at me to show me the submission in their faces and to demonstrate their devotion. It is easier to spot lies when keeping eye-contact, and harder to lie for the person.Greeting (owned/rented slaves)
My honorific is always Mistress, unless permitted to use the german equivalent "Herrin". While in my service you should always use this title to address me and I am constantly vigilant to ensure with strict remonstrations that you don't forget to use it. I expect you to greet me by immediately dropping to your knees, kissing my feet.
Honorifics (owned, rented and unowned slaves)
The honorific Master/Mistress and Domina/Dominus are reserved for those who own or rent the slave for the time. That means, that slaves who are owned by the establishement, are to call staff-members, and renters by that title. Free Patrons that are not currently renting them, are to be adressed with any other respectful honorific. My Ladyship/My Lordship or Madame/Messire is an option. If you know the persons rank, a suiting honorific can be used. If the rank is unknown it is safe to use 'my Lady, my Lord' regardless of nobility.
Instant Adaptable Positions (IAP) - learn them by heart.
During their training my slaves are expected to learn a series of positions and be able to adopt them instantly. This allows me to call out a number in order to have the slave in the position I require to further use them. I have spent many an afternoon, cane in hand making sure the slave practices them until absolutely perfect. It can be so much fun calling them out in such quick succession that the slave becomes completely confused and flustered with an extremely sore backside. It'll be used to reinforce the training, not as a punishment.
Muscle control is essential. Always assume positions gracefully and fluid!
Each position has a number, so it is easier to call them out in a quick succession. Names have been added for roleplay purposes.
Hover over the descriptions of the positions to see the name, and what the position is called!
--->1 - Lay upon your belly, facing to the left. Cross wrists in the small of your back, then cross your ankles, legs kept straight.
--->2 - Lay upon your belly, facing to the left. Spread your legs shoulder width apart and keep arms to the side, with palms up.
--->3 - Lay flat on the floor, face upward and hands at your sides, palms open and up, legs spread wide. Lift hips off the floor.
--->4 - Stand, and bend at the waist to gather your hair and offer it to me for leading purpose. No or short hair? An ear will do.
--->5 - Disrobe and step away from your clothes. Clasp hands hands behind neck, with feet slightly wider apart than shoulders.
--->6 - Stand with your back straight, chin lifted, and stomach pulled taut. Cross your wrists in front of your chest, elegantly.
--->7 - Kneel, thighs together and bottom resting on heels. Keep your back straight and rest your palms (down) on your thighs.
--->8 - Kneel, with thighs spread and bottom resting on heels. Cross wrists in the small of your back. Chest out, head held high.
--->9 - Kneel, with calves on the floor and thighs vertical, body held upright. Put hands behind your head, and spread your legs.
--->10 - Get onto all fours, with legs modestly together. Hold your head high and back straight. Arms together, fingers spread.
--->11 - Get onto all fours and make sure your back and head level are straight. Thighs parted widely, and your elbows locked.
--->12 - Get down on all fours, and put your palms and elbows down, too. Lift your ass and let your face hover over the ground.
.............>The following IAP are for certain purposes, like putting on a leash or to expose the neck and/or certain body-parts.
.............>No matter if the slave is laying, kneeling, sitting or standing, changes are to be done accordingly and with fluidity!
--->13 - Immediately cross your wrists behind your back, and your ankles. If you are laying on your back, roll onto your stomach.
--->14 - Pull your buttocks apart with your hands, exposing your pucker. If you are laying on your back, roll onto your stomach.
--->15 - Raise your head, that a collar can be put on easily. If you have long hair, lift it. When laying, get up onto all fours swiftly.