PLEASE READ THIS, YOU GORGEOUS HUMAN BEING!
Now, I don't know if the admins will be okay with me posting this here but I think it's important to share with you why you are amazing. Lot of people here are struggling with accepting theirselves. And I wanna make it stop. This is a post from my blog but I wanted to post it here aswell so that it reaches more people. Here I go:
Lately I have been looking back alot. Not in a bad way though. I have learned alot in these past 3 years, my vision on life has changed so much and I have a lot more selfrespect. And you know what changed? Not the world. I did! I realised that if you wanna love yourself, you need to start shutting out the opinions and harsh words this world throws at you. After doubting myself for so many years it finally hit me. No I'm not miss confidents, yet but I don't care as much anymore what others think. And neither should you because honey, you are good enough. Hell, I'll even call you perfect. Yes, perfectly imperfect.
Here is why you are a miracle. Remember when you were in your mommy's tummy? Ofcourse you don't but this is what people said about you. “That right there is a little miracle.” You grew and every single step was magnificent. From the moment you started to grow a heart until the moment you grew fingernails, all the way until you came out, screaming and crying. So why, now that you have survived all these years, all of this heart break, sickness and horrible truths. Why aren't you a miracle anymore? What makes you less then when you were tiny and very precious. You are even more special because you survived all the horrible and beautiful things.
Here is why you are as important as anyone else in this world. First of all, you are a human being. Your heart is beating, your hands are working and your eyes have seen. That alone should be reason enough but I know to you it isn't. So here is another reason. Up until now, you have changed lives, even if you don't realise that. You have given carbon dioxide to the trees, you have given love and you have given a meaning to the words you speak. You have changed the world, your world and other people's worlds.
Here is why you shouldn't care about the world and realise that you are beautiful. I know that this world has pushed it's opinions on you. It has told you who to be, what to wear and how to act. But who made society king of opinions and rules? Who said that only those people are right? You have. By going along with what it has said, by believing every single judgement and decision. You gave them enough power to rule this world. And that is the only thing that is stopping you from believing you are beautiful. Because this world told you that if you don't fit a certain image, you aren't beautiful or good enough. But damn it, you SO are.
Now, stop giving them that power. How? By realising that it's all up to you! You can make all the choices and thats what this world has taken away. If you don't feel good when following the crowd, don't follow it. If you wanna wear red when they say it's a blue season, wear red! It's simple because there is nothing stopping you from doing what you want. If you wanna follow the world because you feel comfortable doing so, do that! If you want to be a goat in a crowd of sheep? DO SO! Thats the beauty of being a person. Nothing, not even the law can stop you from doing what you really wanna do. If you are okay with the consequences? Why the hell not? Thats the beauty of being human. The choices. And thats what makes you beautiful. You, making your own choices, no matter what the world tells you. Why would you wanna please everyone/anyone else? You are breathing air for you, not for the rest of the world. Your heart is beating to keep YOU alive, not the rest of the world.
Yes, the world is a dark place if you let it be. But in the end you don't need the world to be the light that guides you. Just choose to turn on the switch and be your own light! Love yourself! It's the only thing that really matters. Once you love yourself, loving someone else will be so much easier and you'll see that others will find it easier to love you aswell since you aren't fighting it anymore. Take your life in your own hands, make decisions without thinking about what the world wants and you'll see you'll be happier. And just like me, you will realise that you are GORGEOUS!
It takes nothing to join a crowd, it takes everything to stand alone.
Now, I don't know if the admins will be okay with me posting this here but I think it's important to share with you why you are amazing. Lot of people here are struggling with accepting theirselves. And I wanna make it stop. This is a post from my blog but I wanted to post it here aswell so that it reaches more people. Here I go:
Lately I have been looking back alot. Not in a bad way though. I have learned alot in these past 3 years, my vision on life has changed so much and I have a lot more selfrespect. And you know what changed? Not the world. I did! I realised that if you wanna love yourself, you need to start shutting out the opinions and harsh words this world throws at you. After doubting myself for so many years it finally hit me. No I'm not miss confidents, yet but I don't care as much anymore what others think. And neither should you because honey, you are good enough. Hell, I'll even call you perfect. Yes, perfectly imperfect.
Here is why you are a miracle. Remember when you were in your mommy's tummy? Ofcourse you don't but this is what people said about you. “That right there is a little miracle.” You grew and every single step was magnificent. From the moment you started to grow a heart until the moment you grew fingernails, all the way until you came out, screaming and crying. So why, now that you have survived all these years, all of this heart break, sickness and horrible truths. Why aren't you a miracle anymore? What makes you less then when you were tiny and very precious. You are even more special because you survived all the horrible and beautiful things.
Here is why you are as important as anyone else in this world. First of all, you are a human being. Your heart is beating, your hands are working and your eyes have seen. That alone should be reason enough but I know to you it isn't. So here is another reason. Up until now, you have changed lives, even if you don't realise that. You have given carbon dioxide to the trees, you have given love and you have given a meaning to the words you speak. You have changed the world, your world and other people's worlds.
Here is why you shouldn't care about the world and realise that you are beautiful. I know that this world has pushed it's opinions on you. It has told you who to be, what to wear and how to act. But who made society king of opinions and rules? Who said that only those people are right? You have. By going along with what it has said, by believing every single judgement and decision. You gave them enough power to rule this world. And that is the only thing that is stopping you from believing you are beautiful. Because this world told you that if you don't fit a certain image, you aren't beautiful or good enough. But damn it, you SO are.
Now, stop giving them that power. How? By realising that it's all up to you! You can make all the choices and thats what this world has taken away. If you don't feel good when following the crowd, don't follow it. If you wanna wear red when they say it's a blue season, wear red! It's simple because there is nothing stopping you from doing what you want. If you wanna follow the world because you feel comfortable doing so, do that! If you want to be a goat in a crowd of sheep? DO SO! Thats the beauty of being a person. Nothing, not even the law can stop you from doing what you really wanna do. If you are okay with the consequences? Why the hell not? Thats the beauty of being human. The choices. And thats what makes you beautiful. You, making your own choices, no matter what the world tells you. Why would you wanna please everyone/anyone else? You are breathing air for you, not for the rest of the world. Your heart is beating to keep YOU alive, not the rest of the world.
Yes, the world is a dark place if you let it be. But in the end you don't need the world to be the light that guides you. Just choose to turn on the switch and be your own light! Love yourself! It's the only thing that really matters. Once you love yourself, loving someone else will be so much easier and you'll see that others will find it easier to love you aswell since you aren't fighting it anymore. Take your life in your own hands, make decisions without thinking about what the world wants and you'll see you'll be happier. And just like me, you will realise that you are GORGEOUS!
It takes nothing to join a crowd, it takes everything to stand alone.
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Something I go by every day!
Loving yourself is a requirement for being able to love others. But let it be known there's no shame in having days where you don't love yourself. It's normal, it's human, and it's perfectly fine to not like the person you see in the mirror today. Just remember that tomorrow there's a slightly different, newer you who has new opportunities ahead!
Also, we give CO2 to the trees, the trees give us oxygen.
Loving yourself is a requirement for being able to love others. But let it be known there's no shame in having days where you don't love yourself. It's normal, it's human, and it's perfectly fine to not like the person you see in the mirror today. Just remember that tomorrow there's a slightly different, newer you who has new opportunities ahead!
Also, we give CO2 to the trees, the trees give us oxygen.
Sanne wrote:
Something I go by every day!
Loving yourself is a requirement for being able to love others. But let it be known there's no shame in having days where you don't love yourself. It's normal, it's human, and it's perfectly fine to not like the person you see in the mirror today. Just remember that tomorrow there's a slightly different, newer you who has new opportunities ahead!
Also, we give CO2 to the trees, the trees give us oxygen.
Loving yourself is a requirement for being able to love others. But let it be known there's no shame in having days where you don't love yourself. It's normal, it's human, and it's perfectly fine to not like the person you see in the mirror today. Just remember that tomorrow there's a slightly different, newer you who has new opportunities ahead!
Also, we give CO2 to the trees, the trees give us oxygen.
Ofcourse there is no shame. I just wanted to point out the why..
and eeuhm thanks for telling me! :p
For the record, the admin is okay with this.
Victoriantruth wrote:
Ofcourse there is no shame. I just wanted to point out the why.. and eeuhm thanks for telling me! :p
and eeuhm thanks for telling me! :pI mentioned it because in my experience I tended to feel bad when I had off-days when I was doing so well, and it turned out to be another stepping stone to learn how to accept those bad days as being normal instead of punishing myself for it. I know other people struggle with that as well so I wanted to add to the message in case others feel the way I did!
Sanne wrote:
Victoriantruth wrote:
Ofcourse there is no shame. I just wanted to point out the why.. and eeuhm thanks for telling me! :p
and eeuhm thanks for telling me! :pI mentioned it because in my experience I tended to feel bad when I had off-days when I was doing so well, and it turned out to be another stepping stone to learn how to accept those bad days as being normal instead of punishing myself for it. I know other people struggle with that as well so I wanted to add to the message in case others feel the way I did!
That is very true! Loving yourself is very hard. I have to convince myself everyday that I'm beautiful. And give myself reasons aswell. I think in the end its about finding something, a goal or passion that makes you feel good/beautiful. And with me it's making other people feel good, make them happy.
Its a battle and if it was easy to love yourself we wouldnt have to convince anyone. But realising you are beautiful means accepting the good and the bad. Because in the end we are all good and bad. We are our talents and our failures. Its what makes us human.
I just hope that (even if its only one soul) it helps someone.
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