Skip to main content

Forums » Smalltalk » The late apology

Sundrop

Gosh, this is one late apology! But since it's been eating at me for long time now. My guts telling me "hey, it would probably be wise to do the right thing." So...some of you might remember, some of you won't even know what I'm even talking about, but here I go. About a year ago,I did something that offended someone and inulted the entire website.

About a year ago.

It was the websites birthday and everyone was given epic membership for a week. After hearing this I started creating new characters off the bat, but I was a little procrastinator and didn't finish editing all the characters I created. After the membership ended, I wasn't aloud to edit the characters anymore so when I went to edit them I kinda threw a huge fit.

After learning you can't edit the extra characters after your epic membership ended.

I decided to express my opinions on the forum's. I guess I was a little too expressive because I unintentionally ticked off someone because I sounded pretty bratty in my post. I honestly never had epic membership before so I looked like a do of us in my post. A fourteen year old with no job or no idea how to get one. How the heck am I going to pay for this!? I was thought.

So after clicking the 'post topic' button I got a few replies and about everyone disagreed with me. Then someone decided to express their feelings and they sounded pretty upset with my post. Karma really bit me on the behind real hard. That person called out and demanded a apology for my offensive post. In my head I was thinking, "Oh, H-E double toothpicks I'm not apologizingoing for that!" Instead of replying with a angry reply I thought it would be a bright idea to delete the topic. I asked moderator and they said they would block,but they couldn't delete it. So after after having the topic blocked and having a talk with the moderator. I was still a little angry over the whole conflict. I decided to just forget about it and move on, spoilers! That didn't work out too we'll since I was still battling in my head whether to apologies for my actions or not. This continued to eat at for a long time and now I've decided to get off my button and apologies. So the welldeserved apology has finally arrived, I'm a sorry dear players of lovely website.
Kim Site Admin

This kind of blows my socks off. I remember exactly the disagreement and the resulting debate, both in public and in private. Very impressed that you decided to apologize after all this time!
Sundrop Topic Starter

Kim wrote:
This kind of blows my socks off. I remember exactly the disagreement and the resulting debate, both in public and in private. Very impressed that you decided to apologize after all this time!

What to do mean by impressed? I'mean confused.
Kim Site Admin

I mean most people, even if they decided they had done something that needed an apology, would stay quiet after so much time had passed because they would hope that it just "blew over" and not want to bring it up again. It's often very difficult to do the right thing, so I am impressed when someone does it all on their own, especially in a situation where they probably would not have had to talk about it again if they continued to stay silent.
Sundrop Topic Starter

Kim wrote:
I mean most people, even if they decided they had done something that needed an apology, would stay quiet after so much time had passed because they would hope that it just "blew over" and not want to bring it up again. It's often very difficult to do the right thing, so I am impressed when someone does it all on their own, especially in a situation where they probably would not have had to talk about it again if they continued to stay silent.

Ahh.. I see.
Nice-uh! Good job-uh Sundrop-Sama, you have-uh done your family an honorable service-uh, Arigato :0

In all honesty tho, good job, it's hard to apologies but it's even harder to apologies after a year. It takes a big man/woman to accept when he's wrong and it takes a bigger man/woman to apologies for it, be proud of yourself :)

You are on: Forums » Smalltalk » The late apology

Moderators: Mina, Keke, Cass, Claine, Sanne, Dragonfire, Ilmarinen, Darth_Angelus