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I haven't been around a lot on this site lately,and I'm wondering if I should just leave completely.One of my favorite persons to rp with has apparently left,and I've only done a couple rps in the couple weeks I've been here.I'm too shy to try to find new partners because I've been rejected so many times,and I always feel bad when I have to tell someone that I don't want to rp with them for whatever reason.And the 1 group rp I'm in I feel my character doesn't really contribute to the story,but I'm too shy to try to change the storyline the others have made to include him more,so I've just been replying so the others can move on.I don't know.I just feel I'm not good enough for this site.
You shouldn't let rejections get you down, there are always people willing to RP but alas, the difficulty is finding them.
I happen to know the group RP you're referring to and though I see where you're coming from, It isn't enough to make you turn from the site. There are many ways you could make your character play a more vital role in the RP.
My advice to you is to keep trying, eventually you will find the right people.
I could even do one with you if you wanted!
I would be very sad if you left :(

Of course its never fun to be rejected, forgotten or sat aside, but if you love to RP then let it shine through! You are good at RP's and you are also a very kind person (of what I can feel). You even inform and update when you might be available, just so people have something to wait on, I know I do!
No! Don't leave! I love playing with you, and I know that some people around this time of year are very busy truth is I have been just that. I don't know who your favorite partner is, but I know that if they left it couldn't possibly have been because of you.
Sometimes the partners people are looking for are just there in front of them. Only to realize they were there when they are gone. Keep what they have. Find what they have. Rejections happen. Day by day, there will be time to find the perfect one. If it helps, I haven't found the one I am looking for. But still. Storyline in forums flows slow. It takes time. Each character gets to shine some day. Sometimes it is just a waiting game.
I'll RP with you anytime and I can also help you make your character a more important role if you wish. For example: Try to attack the bad guys, Start a conflict, Make your character think something of the past, Be mean or sentimental of certain subjects, or practically anything like that! You'll be fine Bree if people don't want to RP with you that's their loss, but Me, Robin, Hudacious want to RP with you because whether or not you know it you being in any RP is your contribution! :)
After you go Bree and my turn comes back around I'll fix the situation if you wish.
Bree Topic Starter

Thanks for all your support you guys...I'm not leaving after all.I was kinda just feeling sorry for myself when I made this post,but I'm done with that now.I'm going to start replying right now to all the rps I've been neglecting with you guys.It may take a little bit,but I will reply to everyone. :)
"You know, getting depressed isn't a bad thing. Rather, it makes you distressed if you try too hard try get back on your feet. When you're down, you'd better stay that way until you get better. It'll turn into energy pushing you to move forward in the right way. But if you keep dwelling on it alone, you'll end up sinking deeper than you need to... so when someone is with you just like this, it'll help you, right? " - Hina-nee

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