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I know a lot of you have been concerned about me lately, and while I don't want to go into too many details I just want to let you know if you bare with me and don't bash my skull in - there is a reason.

Someone really close to me is dying. I've known he wouldn't live long for a long time, but it's really hard now that it's here. I'm swinging through all the stages of grief, right around the time that I'm going through a super stressful time at work (since I'm on my way out, my boss is putting pressure on me to work harder and harder and yelling at me - a LOT)

I don't want to go away because being at RPR/work gives me something to do rather than stare at my hands and wonder where I went wrong. This whole situation is slowly driving me mad, and while it probably doesn't seem like it, RPR (and the chat) is helping me cling to the last bit of sanity I have left.

So, please bare with me, this'll pass and perhaps I'll emerge stronger.

My dear Lily, I know how hard that can be and you have all of my thoughts and good feelings. As does your friend. I was one of the ones concerned about you and I'm glad you could share with us at least part of what you're feeling.

If you need anything, someone to laugh at, someone to talk to. I'm here, as I'm sure many in this community are. Please, if we can help in anyway let us know.

Massive hugs, for you Lily! *hugs* I just want you to know that I'm here for you if you want to talk or RP or hang out or whatever. Hang in there and just focus on doing what you can. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lily, I'm really sorry to hear about what's happening, know that I'm here for you. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts, and my prayers, and if you ever need someone to talk to, or just need someone to listen, I'll be there if you need me.

Oh dear. I'm terribly sorry to hear that this is happening to you. I would never wish death on another person to hurt the ones they love. I lost my dad about a year and a half ago and it's still hard to this day. Perhaps we can talk sometime. I'm always here if you need me, hun.

I'm very sorry. There's nothing I can say to make anything easier. I don't know if you still want to RP or not; with my hectic schedule I idled from ours and figured it was good where it was, for the time and that I could wait until my life panned out for the super group. But, if it helps you to put your mind elsewhere, ask me to play some time.

Awwww I'm sorry hon. That is always very tough. But it's not something YOU did. Everyone dies eventually, just some sooner than others. It's just a way of life that we all have to accept I don't know what your beliefs are, but I'll be praying for you nonetheless. And you know we are all always here for you when you need us. I personally am just a PM away. Just hang in there, hon.

I'm sorry to hear that Lily *hugs* It's always hard to lose someone close to you. I know when my Mom was sick I did a lot of roleplaying to think about something else. If you ever want to start up another roleplay let me know My thoughts are with you, and you know you can PM me anytime if you want to talk

*hugs tightly* We're here for you, always. *smooch*

Thanks guys. I love y'all.

I'm very sorry to hear that The but I am glad RPR and the chat is helping you out. We'll always be here.