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So I promised to go on a date (Or mini honeymoon) with my gf on aug 7-9. But then i realized im going on tour/ live concert the same few days. The bigger problem is that we can't reschedule it because she's going on vaca for few months... help

How about you take her on a date before or after the concert?

Beacuse today i'm getting prepared for the tour/concert and i already said she'll be gone for a few months when she goes on her vaca.

I think Tardis meant on the same day? So if the tour/concert is at, say, seven at night, you can take her out on a date at noon.

Exactly. Quite simple, really.

Take your gf out, have fun. Concert/tour is fun, but not so important. Why? Because there is 99% of chance you'll spend rest of your life with your gf, and you both will have something to remember. As for tour/concert eventually it will happen again.

Maybe buy her a gift? Like...if she was expecting to go out of town with you or something ("mini honeymoon?") then maybe you could tell her you have to put off the date/trip, BUT, at the same time as you tell her, you can have an even bigger surprise for her that you give her right afterwards, such as, concert tickets or play tickets, or PLANE tickets or a brochure or something of a vacation destination, and you pull that out, and you're like, "But guess what...when you get back we're going to Las Vegas for a week together!" (or on a cruise, or wherever the destination is). Another possibility might be to take her on tour with you for that day or two and then pay her way back while you continue on with the tour? Also, maybe jewelry...maybe a gold locket with y'all picture together or something like that, for her to look at it for the months that she's away from you, so it'll show her that you get that she's going to miss you and that you're trying to address that, or are at least aware of it. Just ideas, ignore anything that does not apply. Good luck.

I'm pretty sure he means that he is the one playing in the tour/concert? I'm not sure, but if that's the case then he can't really not go.