Posted by Sanne November 9th 2016, 10:44am
Hi everyone.
Normally I'm not one to delve into politics, but the message I have for you today is an important one, so please hear me out. By now we're all aware that Trump has won the election and will become the new president of the Unites States.
Many of us are in shock and, to a large extent, fearful of what the future will bring. Even before his election, there has been a very steady increase of violence and intolerance encouraged by him. Some of you may have already felt the effects of this. I know many fear this trend will continue, and that what progress has been made towards equality and affordable healthcare will be reversed, leading to a poor quality of life for many.
My heart is heavy with sorrow, because there are people whose lives have become so dark that they decided to not be with us anymore due to these events. I'm painfully aware that there are many more who feel like this right now, and who will feel like this again in January when his status becomes official. I understand the fear and panic being experienced.
I want every single one of you to know that you are not alone. You are loved and valued. Many, many people are fighting incredibly hard for you. A friend of mine is considering volunteering for a crisis hotline to help those in need during these times. I will be right here to listen to you and do my best to support you in whatever way I can. There are a billion people across the globe who stand by you and are doing everything they can to make sure your lives will be better, that you will not fall victim to the bigotry and injustices he has tried so hard to spread.
The world is outraged by what has transpired, and we will not abandon you. You have a place with us here in this group for one, and I'm personally going to triple my efforts to help you out when you need it.
If you are struggling, I want you to know your feelings and fears are valid, but that this is not a final verdict and that there are people who will help you no matter where you are. All you have to do is reach out and ask. No judgment, just love and support.
For those who have already lost someone in this event, whether it is through intolerance and violence, or by suicide, I share with you my deepest condolences and an incredibly big hug with much love. You are just as welcome here as anyone else and we will fight for your lost loved ones too.
If what we can provide here is not enough, I just want to share the crisis hotline numbers we have available in the group once more. Please reach out and give them a call, or chat with them online, you are worth being heard and the chance to feel better.
US: 1-800-273-TALK
US LGBTQ Youth (the Trevor Project): 1-866-488-7386
US Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255 (press 1)
Canada: 1-800-SUICIDE OR help lines and centers by province OR 911
International: Befrienders Worldwide http://www.befrienders.org/
Australia: 13-11-14 (lifeline) or 1-800-55-1800 (kids help line for 5-25 yrs old)
(Is your country not listed? Please consult this list, or use Google to find the crisis hotline of your country.)
https://www.facebook.com/help/103883219702654 (No FB account needed)
With all my love,
Sanne
Normally I'm not one to delve into politics, but the message I have for you today is an important one, so please hear me out. By now we're all aware that Trump has won the election and will become the new president of the Unites States.
Many of us are in shock and, to a large extent, fearful of what the future will bring. Even before his election, there has been a very steady increase of violence and intolerance encouraged by him. Some of you may have already felt the effects of this. I know many fear this trend will continue, and that what progress has been made towards equality and affordable healthcare will be reversed, leading to a poor quality of life for many.
My heart is heavy with sorrow, because there are people whose lives have become so dark that they decided to not be with us anymore due to these events. I'm painfully aware that there are many more who feel like this right now, and who will feel like this again in January when his status becomes official. I understand the fear and panic being experienced.
I want every single one of you to know that you are not alone. You are loved and valued. Many, many people are fighting incredibly hard for you. A friend of mine is considering volunteering for a crisis hotline to help those in need during these times. I will be right here to listen to you and do my best to support you in whatever way I can. There are a billion people across the globe who stand by you and are doing everything they can to make sure your lives will be better, that you will not fall victim to the bigotry and injustices he has tried so hard to spread.
The world is outraged by what has transpired, and we will not abandon you. You have a place with us here in this group for one, and I'm personally going to triple my efforts to help you out when you need it.
If you are struggling, I want you to know your feelings and fears are valid, but that this is not a final verdict and that there are people who will help you no matter where you are. All you have to do is reach out and ask. No judgment, just love and support.
For those who have already lost someone in this event, whether it is through intolerance and violence, or by suicide, I share with you my deepest condolences and an incredibly big hug with much love. You are just as welcome here as anyone else and we will fight for your lost loved ones too.
If what we can provide here is not enough, I just want to share the crisis hotline numbers we have available in the group once more. Please reach out and give them a call, or chat with them online, you are worth being heard and the chance to feel better.
US: 1-800-273-TALK
US LGBTQ Youth (the Trevor Project): 1-866-488-7386
US Veterans Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255 (press 1)
Canada: 1-800-SUICIDE OR help lines and centers by province OR 911
International: Befrienders Worldwide http://www.befrienders.org/
Australia: 13-11-14 (lifeline) or 1-800-55-1800 (kids help line for 5-25 yrs old)
(Is your country not listed? Please consult this list, or use Google to find the crisis hotline of your country.)
https://www.facebook.com/help/103883219702654 (No FB account needed)
With all my love,
Sanne
Community Feedback
- Thank you for offering your support, Light.
It's much needed, welcome and appreciated. Please do take care of yourself too while helping others, that's just as important. We'll get through this.
Snipe, I totally understand. I have been in a constant state of depressive panic all day. I have so many friends in the US and I'm fearing for their safety with all that's happening. The best thing to do is to let your friends know you're there for them, that they are loved and that you support them. No need to delve into politics, I think right now we mostly need hugs and reassurances, sleep on it for a couple of days and then re-calibrate to see what we can do.
If you want to do more, try inquiring locally with shelters and support groups to see if they can help figure out how you can contribute in your area. Even small things can help.
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I live in a heavily Republican area, and while I am white and pass as straight, even I don't feel safe. I'm afraid of what will happen to reproductive rights and even just what the social climate will become. In all honesty, his supporters scare me more than anything else.
I have gay and POC friends that are terrified right now, and I feel like I should do something but I have neither the head or the stomach for politics. I just want everyone to be okay. -
Thank you, Sanne, just thank you. Right now, I am numb to it all and I just want this day to end... Even if the reality will always be there for the next four years.
I identify as nonbinary, but my sex (which is a woman) and my race makes me fear walking outside even more than usual now. Reminders like this are more than needed now, as people I see and identify with are scared, literally scared of the future. I am too. I just can't show it because people need me. People need pillars and I am more than willing to be one for the community at this time and moving onward.
If anyone needs me, I am always willing to lend an ear or advice. We need to stand tall and embrace each other. This is not the end, it will never be the end. This was just a wake up call to make our own change in the world.
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Sanne
November 9th 2016
12:48pm